| October 15th, 2005 01:02 AM |
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| pdog |
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ventilatorblues72 wrote:
What it all boils down to is: For years I have been living on autpilot and have been bored, really bored. My marriage is not awful, my job is not awful but I have had no real zip or zing in my life. It's been so long that I had forgotten that passion, excitement, danger were even possible.
... Fuck her. After her boyfriend wants to kill you, you're old lady wants to have you destroyed and all your friends flee... I'll be the first to say Wheeeeeeeeee!!!
Ain't this exciting.
you want danger and excitement, go buy crack in a really bad neighborhood. Then smoke it...go back and get more. In two weeks your life will be without a doubt unpredictable and full of dangerous excitement... |
| October 15th, 2005 01:16 AM |
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| Zack |
Dude,
First thing is delete this thread.
Believe me when I say I am in a situation not dissimilar to yours. Let me just offer one thought that hasn't been expressed here yet. Say you break up the marriage and torpedo your old life, and go with this new chick. Five years from now you have a new life, and guess what - it's just the same as the old one - she's talking on the phone and you're wondering where the passion went. The fact is women and wives are two distinct entities, and their transition is ineluctable. Work on making what you've already got better. |
| October 15th, 2005 02:06 AM |
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| Bloozehound |
Bang her doggie-style over the copymachine till sperm shoots out her eyes, but don't buy her the fancy salad ! |
| October 15th, 2005 09:06 AM |
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| Honky Tonk Man |
In the words of John Lydon, "I may be wrong, I may be right", but I suspect the reason you've decided to seek the advice online from people you don't know as apposed to close friends is because your scared to hear the truth.
The truth and best advice I can give you is this. DON'T DO IT.
My best friends father has recently left his wife and three children for his boss at work. He left for two reasons. Money and power. He already earns serious money in the City, so yeah; he's a greedy, egotistic fool. I think it’s completely destroyed my mate’s family.
This may not happen in your situation, after all, you're just looking for a bit of fun in the old bedroom department, right? Well, that’s how it ALWAYS starts. It can lead to other things and destroy what’s SHOULD be the most precious thing to you. You’re children.
Don't do it. Please, for the sake of you’re children and your wife. Things can always be fixed. TALK to her, tell her how you feel and hopefully for your sake and everything you hold dear, things will work out for the better.
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| October 15th, 2005 11:17 AM |
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| Highwire Rob |
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| October 15th, 2005 03:20 PM |
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| ventilatorblues72 |
After a good night's sleep and reading all the heartfelt advice many of you have replied with, I have decided I was pretty stupid to contemplate what I posted yesterday. The truth is I've already been down this path before. My current marriage is my 3rd. The 1st two ended because I left my then wife for another woman. The 2nd time I did it I left a hard working, thrifty schooltracher for a irresponsible and wild but sexy as hell spoiled, Jewish American Princess. I paid for that mistake by going bankrupt and turning into a raging alcoholic for several years. I just don't seem to learn very well. I always marry one kind of woman (3 wives-all three;career women with no substance abuse problems, no mental illness and no infidelity problems) but when it comes to sexual desire I grow tired of them and I get restless and bored and start looking for the most fucked up, sex-crazed psycho I can find. Now, howevber I have two beautiful children that are the most important thing in the world to me so maybe this time I can break the chain. |
| October 15th, 2005 03:45 PM |
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| nankerphelge |
Only one thing will satisfy that desire:
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| October 15th, 2005 05:13 PM |
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| monkey_man |
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pdog wrote:
... Fuck her. After her boyfriend wants to kill you, you're old lady wants to have you destroyed and all your friends flee... I'll be the first to say Wheeeeeeeeee!!!
Ain't this exciting.
you want danger and excitement, go buy crack in a really bad neighborhood. Then smoke it...go back and get more. In two weeks your life will be without a doubt unpredictable and full of dangerous excitement...
Very wise words my friend! |
